Richard “Checkers” Ebnet

January 30, 1947 - February 21, 2023

Richard V. “Checkers” Ebnet, age 76, of Sandstone, died peacefully with his loving family at his side on Tuesday, February 21, 2023, after a short time in hospice at his sister- and brother-in-law’s home in New Prague.

Richard was born on January 30, 1947, in Albany, MN, to Vernon S. and Phyllis (Stevens) Ebnet. His family moved to New Prague when he was a child, and he attended St. Wenceslaus School. He graduated from New Prague High School, attended St. John’s University in Collegeville for a year, and went on to obtain his bachelor’s degree from Mankato State College. He served in the U.S. Army from 1970-1972, stationed at S.H.A.P.E. (Supreme Headquarters Allied Powers Europe, the communication base for NATO) in Belgium. It was there and during that time that he married his high school sweetheart Kathleen M. Pomije on June 19, 1971. They resided in Belgium for the following year. After service the couple first lived in Pine City and then made their home in Sandstone, where Richard worked as a social worker and then as the supervisor of Human Services for Pine County.

The couple ecstatically welcomed their son Michael into the world in 1978. Not wanting their son to be an only child, they were excited to host five exchange students over the years—Ana (Honduras), Yuji (Japan), Morten (Greenland), Michi (Ecuador), and Alex (Ecuador).

Besides being a loving host father for the A.F.S. organization, Richard was a proud fireman of the Sandstone Fire Department from 1977-2007. He was a member of Ducks Unlimited for many years contributing beautifully hand-carved duck decoys to be auctioned at fundraising banquets. He was a contributor to Dollars for Scholars and served as their “master griller” for many years at fundraising events. Richard whole-heartedly supported East Central Schools’ theater department, creating and building spectacular scenery for nearly 170 theatrical productions. In 2017 he and his wife were honored by the Minnesota Educational Theater Association as recipients of the Dedicated Lifetime Award.

During his life Richard loved participating in sports. In high school he played football and baseball, in college he wrestled, in Belgium he was on a soccer team, and later also participated as a member of a broomball team. In retirement he enjoyed watching sports on television, especially with his father. However, Richard’s greatest passions, besides spending time with family and friends, were hunting and fishing.

Throughout his life Richard was hardworking, caring, loving and always lived a life of service to others. He had a wonderful sense of humor, and students will fondly recall that Richard would sing while he built scenery, often fracturing the lyrics for their amusement and delight.

Richard is survived by his wife, Kathleen of Sandstone; son, Michael of Duluth; father, Vernon “Chub” Ebnet of New Prague; sisters, Mary Carol (Roman) Dorzinski of New Prague and Barbara (Mike) Rothwell of St. Louis, MO. Richard is preceded in death by his infant son, Danny Paul, and mother, Phyllis Ebnet.

A Celebration of Life Gathering will be held Saturday, March 4th, at the Sandstone Fire Station (113 Main St., Sandstone, MN) at 3:00 pm with a meal to follow. Private burial will occur at a later date in New Prague.

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Fr. Kevin Clinton
2 years ago

What a marvelous couple–Kathleen and Richard. I note the consistent support Richard gave Kathleen in the drama work she has done–all part of a life well lived and a devoted husband. Peace to you, Kathleen, and your family. –Fr. Kevin Clinton

Silvia (michi) Zafra
2 years ago

How can forget a lovely Dad? My american Dad Richard was a special person in my lífe Along Mom Katty and my brother Michael. They are my american family they give me one of the best year and experience in my life. We are very close. Thanks Dad for every thing, we will see you close to God someday. Rest. I love you. Michi your ecuatorian girl.

Ricardo Tabora
2 years ago

Lo conocí unos días antes de mi boda con Ana Riera, fue una sorpresa agradable que viniera Mom and Dad, desde Minnesota. Desde allí comenzó mi experiencia en ir conociendo a la familia. Excelentes personas, tanto del lado de Richard como de Kathy. En mis visitas a Minnesota, hablamos de carpintería y de cacería. Nunca logre coordinar esa experiencia, sin embargo en los viajes a la cabaña, teníamos que pasar a la hora adecuada para ver a los venados comer. A parte de la afición a la cacería que teníamos ambos, también por los dulces. Una gran persona, de noble… Read more »

Jo Domogalla
2 years ago

When we think about what makes up a good man, Richard is the blueprint. Working with Richard on the set/scenery for plays always brought me a sense of peace. While his presence before performances comforted my nerves, speaking to him always made me break character because I could not help but be TOTALLY MYSELF around him! I am so very grateful for that. His encouraging and gentle attitude always made me feel content to be around him. His humor, much like his counterpart, Mrs. Ebnet, was subtle and original. I also remember the way he handled conflict. When he was… Read more »

Joe Kolb
2 years ago

Rich was a good man. He was an asset to social services and to the community. He will be missed by those who had the honor of knowing and working with him.

Ana Victoria Riera Hernandez
2 years ago

Family is not only by blood... and definitely my AFS family is a very important part of my life... Dad, I thank you for your hospitality and having been an excellent companion during my year of stay as well everytime we came back with Ricardo and the kids , always taking care of us and preparing delicious meals and taking me to see the most that I could from Minnesota, we have maintained this beautiful relationship as a family since the day I arrived at your house coming to Honduras for my wedding, accompanying my children while they studied at… Read more »

Yuji Sato
2 years ago

私にとってはホストファーザーであり、友人であり、先生でした。
会いに行けなかったこと。とても後悔しております。
本当にありがとうございました。
Yuji

margaret tschimperle
2 years ago
Reply to  Yuji Sato

EUGI, PLEASE POST YOUR EMAIL…WE HAVE BEEN SEARCHING FOR YOU. PLEASE TRANSLATE ABOVE MESSAGE. Thanks!

Pamela Kolker
2 years ago

Richard Ebnet. Someone who will always be remembered for his commitment to his wife and projects to support the Sandstone area community. Always consistent in his respect to everyone he knew.

Dusty Clark
2 years ago

Growing up, to me, Mr. Ebnet was more than just my good friend’s dad–he was a role model! My earliest memories of him were of picking up the Scouts and taking us to the swimming pool in Hinckley. As the years went by, and I had more opportunities to spend time with the Ebnets, Richard took me along with him and his family to Canada for some camping and fishing… I can still remember that amazing breakfast we had along the way, and how awful Canadian Dr Pepper was. But to top it all off, before I left for Marines… Read more »

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Al Deneffe
2 years ago

Richard, my brother! We had so many memories over the years! Too many to name them all. A great friend! He helped me get through some tough times in my life! Always there for me! You will always be with me and surely missed!

Alex Zafra
2 years ago

Daddy Richard, was a lovely father, I could never forget how he gave me love as his own daughter. I will keep him always in my heart.
Your Ecuatorian child.

Loren Else
2 years ago

What a remarkable life of service and love he lived. I was honored to know him.

Bill Jansen
2 years ago

My entire family has been touched and inspired by Richard’s creativity and inventiveness, but mostly by his plain goodness. He will be missed.

Laurie taverner plessel
2 years ago

Rich was wonderful to work with. I enjoyed his wit and laughter. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Barb Rothwell
2 years ago

Love you little brother. You deserve to rest now – you lived for and served others all your life.

Judith Tengwall
2 years ago

Wonderful man. A man who was good to everyone. Added so much to this world. He will be greatly missed by all.

Rick Olson
2 years ago

Not a fishing trip or a day in the duck blind will go by without thinking of my friend and fire department brother. RIP.

Ben Laposky
2 years ago

Rest In Peace Richard. My thoughts and prayers to Mrs. Ebnet and family. Thank you all for what you have done for and meant to the Sandstone community.

Jill Frilling
2 years ago

So very sad. My thoughts and prayers for Kathy and Mike. ❤️

Nathan Frazer
2 years ago

Very sad to hear this. My thoughts are with Kathy & Mike and family.

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