Roman F. Stepka

January 25, 1929 - December 6, 2019

Roman F. Stepka, age 90, of New Prague, died peacefully but suddenly with his family at his side on Friday, December 6, 2019 at St. Francis Regional Medical Center in Shakopee.  Roman was born on January 25, 1929 in New Prague to John F. and Barbara P. (Hanzal) Stepka.  He grew up in the St. Patrick area and attended country school.  He married the love of his life, Rita M. Tupy on September 3, 1966 in New Prague.  Farming was ingrained in Roman’s blood so raising his family on a dairy farm in the St. Patrick area was the natural order for him.  He loved not only his dairy cows but all animals; he especially loved feeding and watching the birds.  He was a member of the 3rd degree Knights of Columbus and the Midwest Dairy Farmers Association.  His faith and church were important to him and he was enthusiastically active even in the church festival in recent years.


Roman was a simple man, down to earth, and always positive.  His affable personality drew everyone to him and he touched people everywhere he went.  After retiring from farming, he worked for Anderson Bus Company for 20 years and drove pre-school children; his kindness and love for children earned him the title of “grandpa”.  Spending time with his own grandchildren brought him his greatest joy in life and he attended all of their sporting or school events.  He loved nothing more than to fly and travel with his family; he spent his 90th birthday on a beach at South Padre Island and touched all vacationers there; they all seemed to know it was his birthday and celebrated right along with him.  He will be sadly missed by so very many; he stole everybody’s hearts wherever he went.


Roman is survived by his children, Tracy (Dean)_Parks of Watertown, Jennifer (Cliff) Lindquist of New Prague, Paula (Chris) Giesen of New Prague; sisters, Evelyn (Joe) Scheffler of New Prague, Jenny (Alvin) Fremouw of Menomonie, WI; sisters-in-law, Delores Stepka of Prior Lake, Rosie Stepka of Lonsdale; 8 grandchildren; 4 great-grandchildren.  He is preceded in death by his wife, Rita on July 21, 2009; son, Steven; parents; brothers, John, Lawrence, and Clarence Stepka and Joseph in infancy.


Mass of Christian Burial will be held Monday, December 16, 2019 at 11:00 AM at St. Patrick of Cedar Lake Church with Father Michael Miller officiating.  Visitation will take place at church 1 hour prior to Mass beginning at 10:00 AM.  Lunch and Celebration of Life will follow Mass in the church hall. Burial will be private in the church cemetery.

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Daniel parks
6 months ago

The last time I saw Roman was in the hospital about a week before he passed away. I went to visit him, Tracy and Steven were there and Josh was working that night. Long story short, as we were all getting ready to leave Tracy leaned into her father to give my hug goodbye and said I love you, and he said “well come back tomorrow so I can love you some more.” I thought that was such a magical statement and I wish for Tracy and her family that there could’ve been many more tomorrows.

Gloria Flicek
7 months ago

I loved my Uncle Roman. I will always remember his kind nature, friendly smile, and easy laugh. He was so proud of his family and loved you all dearly, as you know.

Donna ( Prokes) Stresnak
7 months ago

Roman always made you feel important whenever you talked to him. He could be a jokester at times. I always enjoyed visiting with him. Last week when I stopped to see him at St Gert’s he was concerned that I didn’t go over to see him sooner. I remember when he and your mom got married. They were so happy together. May the Lord comfort you through this Christmas season.

Victoria Cross
7 months ago

My heart is breaking as I am typing this your parents were so special I will never forget them. We are so blessed to say we have a piece of your parents because we have the old pig and cow pasture. I loved your parents so much and they will be sadly missed. I have so many memories of the things that they shared with me personally. .
Love and God bless your family,
Vickie Cross

Robert Shimota
7 months ago

Great family freind rest in peace Roman

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